United States
A long city along a lake, with a winter that changes how people meet.
This site is new. Whoever is first here will have a quiet few weeks and will be the reason it is not quiet later.
Chicago runs north to south along the water, which makes distance unusually meaningful: two men eight kilometres apart are probably on the same line, and two men thirty kilometres apart are not going to meet on a weeknight between November and March.
The grid here is sorted by distance and rounded, and the people on it have all been verified by a live selfie taken in a pose the site picked at random. Nobody browses unverified, including you — which is the point of the rule, not an exception to it.
Messaging is free. All of it, permanently. There is no premium tier on this site and there is not going to be one.
The full list of what gets somebody removed is in the community rules, and what is held about you is in the privacy page.